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So, you have a baby. First, congratulations! However, have said there are some things you need to know – the things people will not talk about, but you could not worry if you do not know about them in advance.

You should know that if your baby is born, it is very likely that it will look very strange. Babies can often be born blue or gray, and may have a broken head, because they fit through such small openings. They are usually bloody and bruised, and can be covered with body hair, especially if they were born premature. All this adds up to a very shocking sight when you least expect it.

You shouldn’t worry, though, as the baby will return to normal quite quickly – the skin will go the right colour after a few minutes, when the baby starts to breathe, and any head injuries and odd hair should clear up after a few days. Just realise that it will take a few weeks before your baby starts to look like the cute little thing you were expecting.

Of course, the next thing you need to know is just what you should do with the baby after that. The most important thing is to breastfeed the baby. Baby ‘formula’ is like junk food for babies, and you should avoid it at all costs – it lacks most of the natural nutrients the baby needs, and will instead fill your baby with whatever chemicals you have in your water supply. Babies can see, hear and smell, although not very well, and the most important thing is for the baby to be near its mother – the sight of her, the sound of her voice and the smell and taste of her milk will soothe it better than any toy or gadget ever could.

It’s overwhelming enough to decide on a perfect first name for your baby, but if you’re not considering its effects on your baby’s last name you may be setting him up for future disaster. It’s easy to overlook how the combination of your baby’s first name and last name will work together. Let’s look at a few pointers in this area.

Perhaps the most obvious place to start is using a duplicate name for your baby’s first and last names. William Williams or John Johnson for example. These names may cause some flack for your child going through school or they may provide a way to really set them apart. Mitch Mitchell, for example, was a famous drummer with Jimi Hendrix.

Common words as last names can present problems. My last name is Byrd and I have to think twice about names so my baby doesn’t end up with a silly name. Be especially aware if your last name is slang for something vulgar. You can be sure your child will never live down a name like Richard Johnson once they hit high school.

Next, make sure the first name you pick doesn’t end with the same sound that your last name begins with. For example, when saying Mark Kogan aloud, it sounds like Mark Ogan or Mar Kogan. And John Nolan becomes Jaw Nolan or John Olan. Just a small point to check for once you’re pretty certain on a name.

Also make sure that shortened first names don’t clash with your baby’s last name. Edward Jed will most likely shorten to Ed Jed which has a silly sound to it. The classic prank phone call name Ben Dover is the result of a shortened first name as well.

Any name you choose can be made fun of somehow, but these are just some ways to make sure you avoid the most obvious mistakes. Above all, be sure to say your baby’s whole name outloud so that you can evaluate its entire sound. Good luck finding that perfect name for your baby!